BDS&M II: Sensation Play

 

You know I had to put this in here for shameless self-promotion.

Scott moved her arms above her head and gently tied them to the headboard. He placed a blindfold over her eyes and kissed her lips. “Are you ready, baby?” His lips were touching hers.

“Yes, Master.” Mariana breathed.

Scott took a small paint brush and dipped it in honey. He made a light figure-8 motion, circling her breasts and tracing her nipples. He trailed the paintbrush down her navel and outlined her bellybutton. He slowly began to lick the honey trail, using long strokes of his tongue.  He paid special attention to her nipples, rolling the soft yet firm buds in His mouth.

He occasionally looked up and watched Mariana’s reaction. She cooed and moaned; she wanted more. He dipped the paint brush in the honey again and moved down to Mariana’s legs. He outlined them as his tongue followed the trail. He momentarily stopped tracing her body so he could focus on her toes.

Scott lifted up Mariana’s left foot and poured a small amount of honey between her toes. He then flicked his tongue between her toes, stopping to suck each individual one. Scott’s warm mouth instantly made Mariana’s nipples erect and the warmth between her legs rise. She naturally arched off the bed with a gasp. He licked and sucked her other foot before he moved onto her thighs.

He tossed the paint brush on the floor and readjusted his position. He took a small amount of honey on his fingers and spread it over her heat. Her pearl was swollen and she was wet with desire. Scott wrapped his arms around her thighs and softly licked her. He heard Mariana let out another gasp, followed by a soft moan. Her body occasionally twitched in anticipation but Scott kept her still. He wanted her to enjoy every moment.

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Sensation play is an enticing part of BDSM. Sensation play is to explore one or more senses of your partner. Sometimes it correlates with sensory deprivation as demonstrated above in the S&M II sneak peek and sometimes it’s just as enticing by itself. A good example of this would be the very erotic movie, 9 ½ weeks with the infamous kitchen scene. Food can be very sexy. Something sweet like fruit or even something sour like lemon while your lover is blindfolded.

Of course, sensation play is not just limited to just one sense. There are the other four senses to explore as well. Enticing your lover with a sexy strip tease is one way. Putting on a sexy song is another means. Ooh, what about touch? A massage, a caress, gently walking your fingers up your lover’s body, or even using ‘claws’ to lightly scratch your lover’s back…

We saw these in person and even though they look daunting, they're not. They feel really, really good!

Sexy, isn’t it?

But there are many forms of sensation play. When Maks and I went to the Everything to Do with Sex show a while back, I had a hands-on lesson with a Dominatrix. Now, this is interesting part of this lesson so pay close attention. The Dominatrix who I spoke with looked more like someone’s grandmother or a teacher. She didn’t look even remotely close to the stereotypical Dommes in the media. She had long, curly gray hair. She wore glasses, red frames. But she did have a whip and a very tight corset so you know She meant business. She also had three subs.

Yeah, She didn’t play.

She had one of her subs restricted on a table, bonded with his hands over his head and his feet spread apart, also bonded. And you know what She was doing to him? She was tickling him. It seemed that the sub was very ticklish and he was getting off on it!  I was very fortunate to also participate in the tickling festivities.  Another sub poured some hand sanitizer on my hands and I got to tickle the bonded sub on the table. I tickled the sub with my bare fingers, feeling his soft skin and watching his reaction. He called me Ma’am and I have to say, that was quite the turn-on. (For those who wonder, I am naturally Dominant but I love playing submissive to my husband. I am a Domme when I play with others.)

The lesson was both empowering (seriously!) and sexy (seriously, again!). The sub was enjoying the sweet torture and I got a lesson on being a Domme from another Domme. How awesome is that?

Another lesson in sensation play is hot wax. Now before any of you freaks do the hot wax, I have to school you: Do not and I repeat, do not use candle wax you get from the store. It is a gurantee you’re going to burn the shit out of your lover. Use paraffin or spa wax. It’s safe and better for you both.

Another Dom gave us a lesson in wax play. He had a woman on lying on a table, naked and face down. He poured a variety of different colors on her and told us what He was doing as He did it.  He softened the woman’s body with baby oil (are you taking notes out there?) before He poured the wax on her. He then gave me the ladle and told me to try. Fuck yeah! Pouring hot wax on a woman is fucking hot! She moaned in pleasure as I poured the wax on her body and the Dom smoothed it over.

This is an example of how the sub's body looked when we were done with it.

Then when He was done, He simply peeled the wax off. It all came off in one peel and the sub’s skin was so smooth underneath like she just got out of a spa treatment. The Dom told me us her skin would be that supple for a long while afterwards.

Remember kids: Spa wax.

Next on BDS&M II week: Impact play. Spank me, Daddy!

And there you have it,

-V.